Ed,
A lot will depend on how you drive the car. Once you get to 500+ then things tend to break, of course this will vary with car to car.
I never build a stock 10 bolt anymore, I polish and tune all of them now. There are plenty of places to get a stock built unit but few take the time to beef them up. If you stay with a 10 bolt, I would tune,polish,use ARP bolts, Toms gears, machine the 10 bolt posi and use the 12 bolt shaft and gears, maybe add the steel cap for strength. The 30 spine axles are better but most use the 17. The 31 spine spindles are much better, look at the diameter compared to stock 17 splines. Plenty use stock spindle though for st/strip cars just be aware of what you have.