The new studs should be OK. I put mine in finger tight. On the filters I would replace them and add another pre-filter inline, this would also give you a little more line to play with so you don't bend any other line and kink it, it could crack and leak while driving. What type of spacer did you get?
Just take your time, and think things out before doing. If something don't work take a break, think it out then try it again.
Getting frustrated just makes you do things incorrect and cost twice as much to repair. The same things apply to trying to get away cheap. If you have to wait and get the parts when you can afford them. If your not happy with the parts your getting, you WILL replace them and then cost much more.
We have all done that.