Bryan,
Not long after I got married I sold a project Fiero. It was an 86 GT. I stripped it and painted it Corvette Torch Red. I pulled a 3.1 V6 from a lumina, bored it over, and had a stroker crank, crane cam, ported heads, roller rockers, and a JET chip burned for it. I had a stall converter, BBS style rims, and a high end stereo.
It was a blast (later I built a V8 Fiero that was 10 times more fun).
Anyway, I sold it for a measly $2,500. We had JUST gotten married. The buyer handed me cash, then drove off. I came in the house with the $2,500 smackers and laid it out on the table with grand plans of what I was going to do. Nikki sat down and we started talking about maybe paying off one or two of her store credit cards etc.......
Here came my dose of reality check!
Turned out she had 44 different credit cards including a personal loan to pay off a card, as well as a car loan.....and there were balances on most of the 44 cards! She pulled a shoe box out and one by one pulled these billing statements out. I almost choked to death gagging on my tongue as she laid the proof of debt out in front of me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Needless to say, all of the Fiero money paid a tiny portion of her bills, then for the next year I sold things, etc, and put money towards her debt. I had no idea the entire time we dated she was so burried!
The good news is, we got past that, only to do it again, then pay them off, then do it again, then pay them off.....it is a terrible cycle!
She informed me a couple of weeks ago I am going to be a daddy. In fact, we are going to the doctor today to see if all is going well. I have to really make some adjustments....like doing the 71 in exchange for the six speed....instead of buying a six speed outright.
It changes everything, but I would not trade Nikki and all the debt for single life and a pile of cash!