Check out
this link for starters.
I'm not sure which 383 kit you're looking at (Summit has several), but there are a variety, from numerous manufacturers. There are two types of balance,as well. There are internally and externally balanced kits, which determines whether you need a 400-block flexplate&damper, or your regular 350-block flexplate&damper. That refers to harmonic balance. There is also the question of the regular balance - some kits are pre-balanced, while some need to be balanced prior to assembly. I think it's probably best to get a pre-balanced kit, since the manufacturer is likely to charge less to balance it than a machine shop will.
I think $3000 would be plenty to do it, if you can do most of the assembly work yourself. The HotRod article puts the cost around $2000, but they don't include a lot of the little bits.
I happened across
this page while searching for some ideas for my future 406 engine. With 109 different engines to look through, I'm sure you'll get some ideas.
Things to watch out for: the hood is low. Tall, high-rise intakes (eg, Victor Jr) won't fit under the stock hood. I don't even think that the Performer RPM will fit. Look for things like the Edelbrock Performer intake, to make hood clearance easier. A tall air cleaner on a low intake will probably work better than a tall intake with a short air cleaner, for a motor designed for torque.
Also, unless you plan on doing a lot of work replacing other systems, you need to have good vacuum. Most everything on the car uses vacuum to operate, so an engine that produces decent vacuum is a must. If you're looking for a "larger" ($$$) project, you
can replace the brake booster with a hydraulic unit, the headlight actuators with electric motors, the entire climate control system with one from Vintage Air, etc., but that's not a small project.
Lastly, I might suggest that aiming a bit higher than your "250-300" numbers might be a better bet. Not that the car would be a total dog, but I'm running approx. 250 hp (200 rear-wheel, so right around 240-250 crank) in my car, and I'm certainly looking for more. It's a heavy car, and it takes a bit to get moving...
Personally, I'd set 383 hp as a goal, just on the principle of getting one horse per cubic inch. Or maybe 383 ft-lbs of torque, since torque is your real goal.
I think that you should also be prepared for the little expenses. Before you get started actually buying anything, start a list and write down every last part, and the best price you could find for it (and remember to write down who had that price - don't ask how I know). Add it all up, and see if you are comfortable with that price. Then at 50% more, as a "safety zone." If it's still something you are willing to deal with, then you can feel comfortable that you won't have any nasty suprises in your checkbook.
Joe