I also find it very easy to break the rear end loose on my car on a dry blacktop road (especially if the blacktop is worn down and the surface is mainly small, smooth rocks) and engage the active handling when the front tires are turned. I have to be especially careful when passing on two lane roads. This never happens on concrete where there is a better grip; the car just goes.
However, my car's not stock and it will break the tires loose if I punch it at almost any speed (I'm on almost new GY runflats).
The active handling can be a pain, but turn it off and breaking the tires loose with the front end turned will almost always result in a donut, which is not good in traffic.
The only fix I know of is to restrict your power or get much wider and stickier tires.
Bottom line is that its some combination of your tires or certain roads.