John,
I agree with the previous post. I soaked both of the crossmember sombreros with PB Blaster from evey conceivable angle for several days. I then went to the local bolt store and purchased bolts of the same thread size as the two that you removed, but about 1 1/2" longer. I installed the longer bolts leaving enough threads so that the bolt head would catch the crossmember once it was pried loose. Then... use the biggest, heaviest prybar available to mankind!!! When those sombreros finally pop loose, you will hear a loud bang (actually, a thud in my case) and the crossmember will suddenly pop loose and be supported by the head of the previously installed, longer bolt. Do one side at a time, be careful of pinch points, sudden movement of the prybar and watch your wheelwells.
Once both sides are loose, securely support the rear differential and remove the long bolts. Good luck.