Thanks again for all the replys.I've read everything posted and at first I was a little nervous. But after looking at the crank snout there is a dimple in the end of it, also I found it has a hole about a 1/2" deep that must be a guide for a puller. Anyway I stuck a 5/16" bit into he hole and it fit perfect so I'am thinking this cant be that hard to drill with a pilot hole like that. I got a longer bit put my laser line on the bit sticking out of the hole and I could see the angle that I needed to keep while drilling. The side to side I used my father in law from above looking down to make sure it stayed steady, and beleave me this guy can see me doing something wrong all the way from his house. After drilling we tapped the hole 7/16x14 , used a grade 8 bolt with a liped washer and lock washer with locktite red on the threads. NOw is this the best way to do it ,no but if I'am going to pull this motor its going to be to replace worn parts or for something catasrophic not a balancer.
I took the car out today and ran it hard and everything is ok so far. I marked the bolt to see if there was any movement ,none, but time will tell. I might pull it again and just replace the balancer with a new one or try that idea of the sleeve.
Thanks Roland.