If the 1-4 light is on, the computer is still trying to activate the lockout. While this light is on, if you can shift from 1st to 2nd or 3rd, your shift lockout has been bypassed on the transmission.
To see if your cars has the bypass installed, get under it and check the wires on the side of the trans. If they are disconnected and plugged, your car has been bypassed.
The lockout of 2nd and 3rd an electrically actuated mechanical system. Again, if you can shift to 2nd or 3rd gear while the light is on, your CAGS has been bypassed. This done by simply disconnecting the wires going to the transmission. You will still get the dash light unless the computer chip has been changed or reprogrammed to eliminate the CAGS.
If CAGS is working, no amount of reasonable force by the driver will allow you to put the can in any gear other than 4th or back to 1st.
However, if the light is on and you shift to 4th, CAGS is satisified and the light goes out, the lockout stops and you can then select any gear you want.
Hope this helps.