At idle after warmup, my 03 shows ~25 psi oil pressure. As the RPM goes up, so does the oil pressure. I usually see around 40-42 psi at cruising speed/RPM. Is this what you are seeing?
As for temp, when sitting at a red light on hot days and with the road already heated up, it is normal for the coolant temp to go up also. Once it reaches a point where the second fan turns on, it will stop heating up. 225-230 is not unusual. Once you get the car moving again, the flow of cooling air increases and the temp comes down. Sitting still, the fans are the only thing moving air across the radiator and the air is coming from below the car, near an already hot road surface.
You didn't mention speed, RPM, outside air temp, etc. for these conditions
Am I missing something?