You probably have already found the tech article, but if you haven't it is under the topic engine, 7 spicy combos, and I built up the medium rare mouse. The site was down last time so I couldn't verify the path.
I installed the 3.73 differential and bought it from Mid America for about $650. You can do it cheaper if you buy the gear set and install themyourself, or probably even if you have a shop do it and you put the differential back in. That's what I would do if I had to do it again.
I used the stock ratio rockers and CompCams has a roller tip that is self aligning so you won't need hte machine work or guide plates for the push rods. I bought the stock push rods rods for the Vortec heads.
Look at this site:
http://www.sallee-chevrolet.com/Cylinder_Heads/Vortec.html
You can get all the part numbers and available products that you need. I bought my heads and several other parts from Sallee and they work real well with you.
The headers came on the car and appear to be generic so I don't have any info there.
As far as the fit, I used the 7116 Performer intake which is the hi-rise because I wanted to raise my max RPM to better match the rearend. It all fits under the stock hood by removing the rubber seal in the hood for the stock air cleaner, using a 3" thick aircleaner, and modifying the hold down screw. I think the aircleaner is 7 or 9 inches in diameter.
I put the 454 injectors back in (was running 350 injectors) and it really woke up the top end power. I lost torque on the bottom end, but when I start tuning the chip, I can lean it out and get it back.