The disagreement is healthy and the your intent to respectfully disagree is noted.
Nevertheless, what you posted is mostly the typical myth and urban rumor that propagate our hobby and are feed by the marketing of 3000-mile oil changes by the quick lube industsry and the oil refiners. I have ten years worth of data to support not only oil drains at the mfg. recommend interval but even extended drain intervals.
Anyone who really understands high-perfomance engines and lubrication for maximum durability during extreme duty will agree with my believe about 10W30 over any 5W30, including my sources at GM Powertrain, although they can't do it on-the-record because of GM's policy of recommending 5W30 in reponse to pressure from the EPA and the need to meet CAFE.
Your belief that additive packages loose potency before the oil looses it's lubricating properties is misguided. at least in the case of good quality or premium synthetic oils. My last spectrographic analysis of one of the vehicles I have on an engine oil test program showed that at 18,000 miles the additive package was still potent, the wear metals were low but the viscosity had jumped one range from SAE30 to SAE40. Those involved in this test and myself deemed that as unacceptable and set the drain inerval for an ester-based 10W30 in this particular type of engine at 18,000 miles or two years with filter changes every 3000-mi.
You're argument that suggesting that 10W30 is better than 5W30 is faulty because the "thicker is better" belief is a myth, is, itself, faulty. Yes, the idea that thicker is better is faulty if we are comparing 5W30 to a 15W50 or 20W60. In that case, I agree, thicker IS NOT better.
The reason a 10W30 is usually a better choice for a high-performance engine, especially in a severe duty cycle in hot weather is that all the VI improvers in 5W30s cause the oil to thin at high temperatures. Sources in GM Powertrain have agreed with me when it comes to replacing 5W30 with 10W30 in Corvette engines which see track day duty during summer. They recommend not only that, but in the case of C5s and C6es, overfilling the crankcase by a quart.
Here's a test you can perform. Run 20 hot laps on a race track with Mobil 1 5W30 in the car. Run until the oil temp gets up to 275 deg. Record the oil pressure. Change the oil to Red Line 10W30 and run the same 20 laps again. At the end of the test you'll see the oil pressure is higher and the oil temperature is a little lower. Then, ask yourself, "Why is that?"
The "cold start-up" issue is still more urban legend propagated by oil company and oil additive company marketing. The SAE 10W rating means that the oil flows like an SAE10 at 0°C/32°F. A 10 weight oil will flow just fine at 32 and even -10 and, if it's a synthetic it will probably flow just as good at -20 deg. Long before 5W30 oils became widely available in the late 1970s, people used 10W30s in the coldest climates such as Alaska, northern Canada and Maine. If those 10W30s didn't work well, no one could have operated vehicles in those climates before the introduction of 5W30s.
I will agree that for most normal street driving in engines intended to last to GM's durability targets, 5W30 oils are acceptable. It when you get into extreme duty or you want better durability than GM expects, then you need to go to a 10W30.
Bottom line: nothing you've posted has convinced me to change my recomendation that in most cases, a 10W30 is a better choice than 5W30. The only exception would be frequent/continuous operation in very cold weather and, by "very cold" I mean -10 or lower. I've run Red Line 10W30 in -20 weather and oil pressure comes up quickly. Admittedly, Red Line is an ester-based product and ester-based engine oils don't suffer near as much thickening at very low temperatures as do petro-based produdcts, but it worked just fine. I'll admit, however, if I was operating a vehicle on a regular basis in those kinds of temperatures, I'd probably go to a 5W20 or a 5W30, at least during the winter...and if it was an Antarctic winter

I'd might even use a 0W20.
But in the case of occasional use in weather that cold, there's going to be no durability problem using 10W30, the Mobil 1 version or the Red Line verison.
Oh, please....
:nono
...spare me. Now this discussion is just getting silly. Go read a service manual. For Corvette, I have them for 1982-2004. For at least the last 20 years, not only has GM allowed use of 10W30 in lieu of 5W30, it's even recommended in some climates, for some duty cycles and is even required in some instances, such as 90-92 LT5s.
With all due respect, my suggestion is: stop believing the typical myths/urban legends about engine oils and do some research to learn the truth.