First off going to a 2.73 is going to be a complete waste of time IMO. You will definetly not see a sotp difference. If you're concerned about going with too much gear then stick with the 3.54.
You can get a Dana 36 with a 3.54 or 3.73 gear. I paid around $1200 for mine outright, no core from a place out east. Zip products sells them in the $800-$900 range I believe on an exchange basis.
If you're planning on doing alot of drag racing you may want to consider going to the beefier Dana 44 rear with a 3.45 gear. You can find them used for about the same price you'll pay for a 3.54/3.73 Dana 36 with all new parts.
You can have someone install either gear in your current rear but it will cost you just as much and IMO you're better off buying a complete rear.
If you switch to a Dana 44 you'll need the cover with it and I believe driveshaft as well, they are different than the D36.
The only reason I would get a stall converter is if you plan on drag racing, even at that worry about it later. The gear will keep you plenty happy.
my advice is to do the 3.54 gear.
As for your car running hot, mine ran the same when I first got it. I immediately installed a 160° thermostat and reprogrammed the fans to come on earlier with a Hypertech Power Programmer. It made a huge difference. My car rarely ever goes above 200° in the heat of summer w/ the AC on.
Since you have a 93 you could just replace the chip instead of using the programmer. email Jeff :
vettn89@yahoo.com
He might be able to help you out with that.
OR you might be able to use a fan switch on your 93. Check with Jeff first, he can probably do that chip for you pretty reasonable.