I hear you, John.
Is just that I usually leave the vaccume advance for last (specifically on a carb/manifold/distributor swap). I feel that if one has not matched a particular carb to a specific engine, this way saves more time and avoids problems. The only exception I can think of is a wet-flowed carb from the factory (an out-of-the-box Street Avenger or the like).
You're right, if done the way I explained, then once everything is done, and the advance hose is hooked-up, the engine will tend to speed-up the idle speed. I just take care of that minor adjustment with the trottle idle screw, if needed, after I finally set the vaccume advance.
In my car, I tend to adjust the vaccume advance slightly off idle. My car idles on "drive" at 750 - 800 rpm's. Off drive it idles at around 950 - 990. So I tune the vaccume advance for about 1050 - 1100 rpm.
I don't know if what I am writing makes sense to anyone, but it works real good in my car. So described in shorthand it would be as follows: Initial timing, mechanical timing, carb idle mixture for best vaccume, idle speed in drive (this works closely with idle speed off drive), vaccume advance. Not exactly text book, but it works in my car.
p.s. Am I mispelling vaccume? I don't know how to work the website's spelling checker