So try the following......
Car cold...Neutral
Start it... push in the clutch.. listen for any .. wind down noises..( like the throwout bearing)
no noises at all (new Centerforce clutch and bearing 5K ago)
Put the car in 1st.. no grind right?
No grind
Quickly put it reverse.. does it slide right in?
yes
(Clutch is held down this entire time)
NOW
pull out of reverse.. let the car sit in neutral, clutch up...
Clutch in
( count to 4)
Put it in reverse.. still no go.. try again..STILL no go..
still goes in any gear just fine
Put it in first now.. then reverse
Did it go in easy?
yes
Do the same series of tests when warm..
Let me know.
( now open wide.. say AHHHHHHH)
Same tests after driving in stop and go traffic for 5-10 miles results in progressively worse grinding trying to go into reverse. Shifter doesn't really want to go into any forward gear at that point, but once I get it in 1st, then there is no problem in shifting up or down when moving. Once the reverse grinding starts, I have to kill motor, shift into reverse and start motor. After backing up I can go immediately into 1st with not too much of a problem.
I'm begining to suspect either air in the line or slave cylinder or a small leak that may be drawing air in once things get warm. I've had the car about 3 weeks now and this has just now started. I know the previous owner quite well and he did not have any problems. I had also driven the car on an extended test ride before buying. The new clutch and bearing was done at the time of some engine work and I know and trust the shop.