A brief treatise on why ordinary bolts will ALWAYS loosen up on headers:
Stock exhaust manifold bolts are 1-1/2"-2-1/2" long; when tightened to proper torque, they will stretch slightly, which creates the clamping force that holds the joint together - that clamping force remains in the joint due to the tension created by the bolt stretch, which is more than enough to compensate for expansion/contraction resulting from heat cycling.
Header bolts are typically only 3/4" long (due to the thin flange vs. the thick casting on stock manifolds), and that's too short for anywhere near normal torque to actually stretch the bolt; installation will create the clamping force in the joint, but since there's no bolt stretch, that force can't be maintained with heat cycling, and the bolts eventually loosen up, requiring regular checks and re-torquing to prevent exhaust leaks and/or blown gaskets at the header-to-head interface.
That's why a mechanical means to prevent header bolt loosening is necessary, such as Stage 8 locking bolts or safety-wiring. You could accomplish the same thing by using stock manifold bolts with heavy tubular spacers between the bottom of the bolt heads and the header flange so you'd have bolts long enough to stretch and maintain clamping force, but that would be kinda ugly.