Its a universal problem
I dont know about how you lot feel

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But Im getting fed up with this
lack of ownership that people are taking for the actions, that they controlling and therefore logically responsible for!
In this case, no one forced her to drive the car, she chose to, therefore she should be responsible for the full extent of her actions. in this case full restitution of the destruction she has caused! By however means necessary, to satisfy
her victims!!!!
This also apply's to Parents. The other day I had an issue with a kid (about 10yrs) who opened the rear door of the 4x4 next to my vette, and hit the guard, not gently but twice hard, resulting in a fairly decent scratch to the top of the guard. It will be a re-spray, not a buff out., and therefore as you will all be aware the whole guard needs to be re-done. :cry
When I politely objected (yes I was polite - honest), the Mother who had come aroud to look at the damage, she (the non-speaking female dog) said
"Whats the big deal, its only an old car" - WHAT! 
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It took all my strength not to retaliate! :bash and to just continue to get insurance details etc to make her accountable for her responsibility, while she complained that she couldnt afford it, that her husband would be mad, that they are only children after all, and they do this type of thing and a myriad of other equally redundant reasons why
I was being so unfair!!. :duh
I dont know what the solution to this apparent trend is, but the only way I know to deal with it, is to make people accountable for thier actions when I can, as I am to others, including my children.
Good Luck with your challenge, I hope she gets the result she deserves, and you get the result you have a right too!.
Sorry about the novel, but I do feel much better now - thank you!

Grant