I have a 1982 Vette that was hit by another vehicle on the left front fender and busted it. The at fault insured's company says that proper repairs are for it to be patched, I disagree as my car was not patched prior to him hitting me but his insurance company says all they will pay is for it to be repaired. I think the front cap should be changed. HELP ANYBODY!

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When someone else is at fault there are a couple of rules that I live by...
1.) Get your OWN estimates from shops YOU TRUST. The other guy's insurance company wants to keep cost down. Typically, that means paying the lowest claim you'll settle for.
2.) Never take the adjuster's word for it. He's the payer for that company and has only HIS interests at heart. Most of the time, these guys have no experience repairing classic cars like ours let alone understanding them.
3.) Don't be in a rush- don't sign anything, take any money, or agree to anything from the other insurance company before you do some research. I go so far as to get my estimates, loss information, and other important data BEFORE I even talk to the other insurance company.
4.) Obtain plenty of "before accident" and "after accident" pictures, obtain a copy of the police report, get three or more estimates of shops you chose, and make copies of all your documentation.
A. Get those files in order and draft a cover letter indicating that you intend be indemnified and that you feel the estimates you have are fair market estimates for the work your car requires.
B. Demonstrate through pictures and documents that you had a well maintained car and that it is worth more than the lowest KBB condition.
C. Label each page of documentation as exhibits "A" through "TBD" and present it in the form of a certified mail packet to the adjuster. That will show you mean business. Remember, they want to take the path of least resistance.
If you give them a packet that connects the dots and would make easy fodder for a hungry attorney- they are more likely to cut their losses and give you what you are asking for (so as long as its not crazy). Adjusters have incentives to close cases quickly. If you make their job easy and the packet is bullet proof... they can justify what you are asking for.
With that said, depending on the level of damage... a repair using kitty hair and resin may very well be the right repair for your car... if the damage is very light. A new panel may be more trouble than its worth. A good shop can do amazing stuff and make your panel look like it was never hit.
The key is finding a GOOD shop.